Have you ever thought about what God wants you to be? I think that we evaluate that question based on life circumstances instead of the Word and who God says we already are. God already knows who we are but wants us to see who we are by allowing us to go through things in life to direct us towards trusting in him in all things. I think that is why there are verses in the Bible that say things like in our weakness He is strong and counting the trials that we go through all joy. In the human realm, that is just not right thinking, but to God that is normal thinking.